Community Rules
The behavioral boundary for safe, thoughtful correspondence.
Version 1.0.0 · effective Sep 1, 2026Treat people as people, not targets. Begin with something relevant, accept a refusal, and stop contacting someone who does not want the conversation.
No minors may use PenAmour. Do not seek minors, misrepresent your age, sexualize conversations, send sexually explicit material, or pressure anyone for intimate content.
Do not threaten, harass, stalk, hate, exploit, scam, spam, impersonate, or coordinate abuse. Do not publish another person's private information or media without permission.
Respect blocks, contact preferences, visibility choices, and the early-conversation restriction on links, images, and audio. Never attempt to bypass those controls.
Report profiles, photographs, or conversations that may break these rules. Reports are confidential safety signals, not tools for retaliation. Moderators may preserve evidence and apply proportionate restrictions.