Welcome to PenAmour
A quick introduction to profiles, discovery, conversations, and letters.
PenAmour is a place for thoughtful connections between adults around the world.
Start with your profile
Tell people about yourself, the languages you speak or want to learn, and the kinds of connections you welcome. You control whether your profile is public and whether you appear in discovery.
Choose how to write
Messages are for conversation. Mail is for creating longer, visually designed letters. A recipient decides whether to accept each kind of correspondence.
Stay in control
Contact preferences, blocking, reporting, presence visibility, and profile availability are available from your account and profile controls.